redhotz's Blog

Redhotz-as a youth i agree with you. kids are like sponges...we soke up everything we hear and see and adults dont realize how big of an influence they are on there kids or the kids around them...as a youth bloger on here i have gotten some sarcastic remarks from fellow bloggers because of my age...but as a 17 y/o i think iam a very mature and well rounded young lady that deserves respect just like the adults do..
_tamara

::watches for missiles and anti air assault fire:::

Way to stir the kindling about,Red...LOL =)

I once read somewhere that some folks just get online to BLEEP...sometimes true...I think people can gripe or complain without being too negative or offensive...
I find sometimes I might blog to vent or connect...depending on the day I've had.
Can please everyone all the time, but all well...that is diversity for ya!=)

Couple of observations, redholtz.

1) You're right

2) I always try to behave here just as I would to a person's face. I think I manage to do that about 95% of the time, but of course it isn't saying much cause I'm generally not afraid to say anything to anyone if I think I need to LOL

3) People do have a strong tendency to think things are stronger and harsher than the author really intends. this is because it's in print, black and white, and nobody can see expression. And of course it's anonymous.

Tamara- ya I thought I was mature at 17 too LOL... I think everyone did.

Not sayin' you're a bad kid or that you're immature for your age. But there's just no substitute for havin' life kick you dead in the butt for another 20 years.

Life is a mixture of good and bad, I can see both sides. The problem is when you are no longer a child and you are dealing with life it isn't always happiness you have to face. It isn't always the dark side either. Most people come on here when the darker moments touch their lifes in a dirrect or indirect manner. Yes we should have happier blogs but as I said life is both and most of us react to darker moments before we do the lighter happier ones.

I think a lot of it but not all of it comes down to who your role models are and parenting. It also comes down to how hard your parents are willing to work with you on becoming a better person. Some parents are lazy out there and don't want to be the one that disciplines but rather be a friend. I think you can have a friend type relationship as long as you don't blur the fact that parenting is the first and most important role.

There are a lot of good kids today and I see many who are doing great things (in school, in church, volunteering, etc.). Unfortunately, there are still those kids that either aren't getting the proper parenting or somehow have gotten down the wrong path of life.

There are times I get fired up and probably should take a few moments before I post, but in general I think I can be positive and try to think before I post. Wow what a run on sentence that was.

Let’s all get together, hold hands and sing a rousing chores of Kum bi ya.

well i actually have learned quite abit from my own daughter. sha truly makes me laugh. i love to laugh and i try to laugh often. it does keep me young at heart at least.

as a youth growing up suxed for me after my mom died i lived with who i thought was my bio dad but wasn't...he was so abusive so i took care of my self for 5 years til i turned 17 then ran away and got taken away then i am in the middle af kinda being adopted...so i think that parents should be more aware of there kids...tell them you love them and will always be there no matter what cause thats all we really want to hear...tell them you are proud of them no matter what they do...cause all they want is acceptence...and to feel loved...
--tamara

lets all get naked and lay in a pile.

Yourtown, I wish you to know I am not like others who blog on here, I do not take offense to your ignorance and stupidity. I will not delete your comments. I will only read what you write and allow others to prey on what you write. I wish to live my life happy and positively. It is my hope that you are being sarcastic and playful. If you are truly as unhappy as you seem, I am sad that your life doesn't have worth to you. I wish you well. And I will think about you and hope for you to find happiness someday. People who are unhappy and miserable will die lonely. Have a happy Hump day tomorrow! Although you aren't the only one here who has posted something I don't appreciate, you are the one who stands out the most in my mind. The one who I think needs thoughts of happiness sent your way! By the way, this blog is not a joke, and thank you for feeling the way you do!